One sided Friendship......possible???

We can’t choose our relatives, to compensate god created friendship. The most beautiful of all relationships in the world, where people are not bound by some social obligation but a relationship created, nurtured and lived with true free will. Friendship is much more beautiful than love, because love can develop into obsession but friendship is all about sharing, said some noble soul. Sharing the joy, sorrows, pain and happiness along with the most important aspect, trust. We are friends with someone because we trust them, because we know that he will be there beside us when the whole world is not. But, as there is one sided love, do we have something called one sided friendship. Sounds weird but it can be true, we can assume someone to be our friend, someone for whom we are ready to do whatever can be done, and that someone either doesn’t know this or doesn’t want to know this. Whenever two people interact in this world there is something called expectations which crop up, you can’t avoid them. If there will be no expectations then the whole world will be peaceful, but sadly enough this is not possible. Friendship takes a new meaning driven by expectations and then, suddenly one day you realize that you expected a lot but got nothing, you were always trying to be the “best friend” but someone was not even noticing and it feels as if you were living in a dream. When you suddenly face real life after waking up from a dream it sometimes become worse than a nightmare. You try to convince yourself that this is not true, it can’t be true, but reality catches up and then you have no choice left. It all ends up by either you letting it go or clinging, to go down with it. “Love your enemies just in case your friends turn out to be bastards.” Anonymous